A to Z of Love Relationship

Some Characteristics to grow and stay in Love relationship:

Being Together and For Each other are the 2 Keys I found here in all these characteristics. Don't try to change your partner. Love him or her as He/She is. That is how God created her.

NOTE: Started from 1 Cor 13: -

A – Admit mistakes, Accepts as U R, Adjust, and Agree (lives in agreement)
B – Bears all burdens, Blesses, Believes, Build each other (1 Cor 13:-)
C – Care for each other, Complement each other, Cover each other, Corrects, Celebrates.
D – Discuss lot to solve and resolve conflicts, Decision-Making together, Draws closer, Delight
E – Encourage each other, Enjoy together in truth.
F – Forgives freely, Faithful, Friendly, Focus on positives,
G – God-centered, God’s way of life, Grow together, Giver, Gentle and Genuine
H – Honest with, Honour each other(Rmns 12:10), Humble, Helps each other, Heart-felt relation
I – Intimacy
J – Joyful living(Prov 5:18), Journey together, Joint venture (towards Heaven) – Joined-hands
K – Kind to each other, Knowing each other


L - Love. God is Love. LOVE.



L – Listens to other carefully, Learning together (from mistakes too).


M – Meek, Mature everyday, Means what he/she speaks, March together with God.
N – Nurture relationship,
O – Openness, Overlook (Prov 19:11, 12:16) mistakes and weeknesses(Prov 17:9), Oneness (One in mind, heart, soul) Mal 2:15
P – Pray (together and for each other), Patient, Passionate, Polite
Q – Quick to forgive & repent, be sorry for your mistakes
R – Respect(Eph 5:33, 1 Pet 3:7), Responsible, Romantic, Remember special things about each other, Rejoice together.
S – Self-less, Supports, Surprises, Sacrificial, Speaks all things, Simple, Sharing in all,
S – Service minded, Senstive to others likes, dislikes, Sexually fullfilling to each other.

T – Togetherness, Trust, Transparent, Time Together, True to each other (Truth), Teach,
T - Talk Godly Things together, with each other, at home (Deu 6:6-7)

U - Uplift each other, Understanding.
V – Value relationship.
W – Walk together in truth and love (one-minded)
X – XL heart (Extra Large) -
Y – Yearn for each other (long for)
Z – Zeal for each other.


Don'ts:

Few things not to be, in the relationship:

A - Never Assume things (Never say “I thought”), speak out instead, No Anger(Eph 4:31)
B - Never hold Bitterness in heart (Col 3:19)

C - Comparing relationship with others’ (Ps 33:15) - God treats everyone individually
C – Complaining is a negative character 1 Cor 10:10, Phil 2:14
C – Do not compete with your partner. - There is no competition in love.

D – Do not Doubht your partner, Do not make her/him feel that he/she is not trust worthy
D – Discourage not. It is not a healthy character.

E – No Envy, No Ego - you will love, when the one you love, grows and goes up; not envy.
F - No fear (1 Jn 4:18).
G - Don't take things for Granted
H - Do not Hide anything from other
I - Irritate not.
J - Don't be Jealous
K -
L - Don’t Lie or keep secrets between you two; but within you 2.
M – Murmur not. Murmuring means focusing on the problem instead of the solution and God.
N - Focus not on Negatives and weaknesses of the partner, No Negative speaking
O -
P – No Pride, No Pointing fingers (instead accept your own faults, if any)
Q - Quarrel not, Do not leave your talk go to an argument.
R – Don’t be Rude in action, speech, etc., Revenge not.

S - Don’t be Slow to reconcile (especially after a quarrel or fight)
S - Silence not, on Anger (Never suppress your feelings, instead express in a polite way)

T - Third person in decision-making, in the relationship. Temper.
U - Never be Unfaithful to your partner, in any way.
V - Vindication is God's. Donot revenge.
W - Waver not in the relationship, be steadfast instead.
X - No X (Stranger) allowed between us.
Y – Yell ??? J …No, No, don’t do that … that is one from a Rude person.
Z -

- How am I going to do and follow all these?
- oh Man! Will I remember all these, in the list?

Are you thinking, Oh man! how am I going to remember all these and how am I going to follow these. Truth is you cannot, if you try with your own strength. What I mean is, you can do only with God. "...with God all things are possible.” Mark 10:27. "with God" is the key. Make sure you are with God.

How can I be with God?

- Ask God for the forgiveness for your sins (Forgiveness is freely available by the blood of Jesus)
- Accept Jesus in your heart, just say Jesus come into my heart from your heart.
- Be ready to live according to the Word of God (The Bible), be ready to leave old lifestyle.
- Speak to Jesus as you speak to anyone so close to you, everyday (Pray).

All these characters and good habits will come automatically, when you only do the will of God. When you seek God first, when God is your first priority, all these good things, not only physical blessings and worldly needs; but also the good habits will follow you…

Matt 6:33 – Keep God first place in your life, He will take you places that you ever imagined.

PS 119:9 – “How can a young man cleanse his way? By taking heed according to Your word.”

PS 119:105 – “Your word is a lamp to my feet and a light to my path.”

You can keep your ways clean, by walking in God’s way. Word of God is the Way, the only true way to life. Life does not mean, eating and drinking and sleeping and walking on the planet without purpose.

Romans 14:17 - “…for the kingdom of God is not eating and drinking, but righteousness and peace and joy in the Holy Spirit.”

All the very best for your marriage life. God bless you.


This is for now … If something comes to my mind, will update. My prayers for you and bless you. See you in Heaven, if could not meet you in this worldly life.